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Debunking Ethnic Rejection & Embracing Natural Black Hair
- By naanis naturals
- Published 03/13/2009
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View all articles by naanis naturalsI'll get fired. I won't be able to get a job. I'll have to wear a wig to interviews.
I
have discovered since being natural that we tend to elevate others'
opinions Instead of getting our grown woman/man on, we allow
our fears to consume us. That’s not to say that
negativity toward natural doesn't exist, but like most things
in life, it's all in how you work it and sometimes you have to
compromise. Would you wear a mini-skirt to a board
meeting? How about fish-net stockings? Own a pair
of heels? When are they ever comfortable? Would you
wear sweat pants on a date?
My
point is, we make adjustments in our appearance based on where we're
going. Where some clothing may be appropriate at the club,
it's not in a work environment...unless you're a stripper.
The same goes for hair styles. Some styles may indeed be
unprofessional. For example, some regard cornrows as
unprofessional but braids are ok. If you prescribe to this
theory and are fearful of being fired, I guess you won't be wearing
cornrows then. But is that the end of the world?
You have options. Use them.
Natural hair is as professional as you wanna make it. Or look at it this way, if you're so professional, so together, then aren't you capable of figuring out how to "professionally" wear your hair? Or do you only excel in endeavors that don't involve celebrating Ebony hair and skin?

naaniMODEL DreamyPisces After the Big Chop
As my teenage cousin would say, "you stupid." No really, "you stupid."
I have Ebony female friends who all but spit whenever they see an Ebony man with a non-Ebony woman. I myself can't blame the brotha. Who wants to be with a woman who can't stand looking at herself in the mirror?
I don't want to be bald. What if my hair doesn't grow?
Take
a look at the photo to the right of naaniMODEL DreamyPisces.
Then check out the photo below. We have tons of examples,
some loosely curled, some coarse, but all demonstrate the FACT is
natural hair does indeed grow.
Healthy hair grows an average of .5inches per month or 6inches per year. Hair also goes through infrequent phases of excessive growth or none at all. For example, some pregnant women experience i
ncreased growth while with child and extreme hair loss post-delivery.

naaniMODEL DreamyPisces...Look, her hair actually grew!
I like straight hair.
If
Madame Walker were alive she'd smack you...at least I hope she
would. There's always the straightening comb. You
know that tool that was widely used before mothers started relaxing
their 5 year olds hair? Use a light pressing oil and hotcomb your hair
with medium-high heat or heat setting. You can have straight hair on
Monday and sport a
bangin' Afro on First Fridays.
Natural hair takes too much effort. I don't want to spend too much time on my hair.
Most
natural styles require little maintenance. Once they're done,
they're done. It doesn't take much time to pick out a
fro. If you opt for braids, cornrows, comb-coils, two-strand
twists, you can go 2-3 weeks without needing to do so much as spray
them with oil sheen.
With
relaxed hair, you're breaking out the curling iron every morning or the
rollers at night. You're greasing your scalp because it's
dry. You're spending money every 4-6 weeks for
touch-ups. You're going to the salon at 4pm only to leave at
7pm because your stylist is multi-tasking and doing 3 client heads at
once.
Too much effort? Right!
So what are you thinking now?
Hopefully, you're reevaluating your perception of natural hair. Hopefully, the next time you see a Sista with natural hair you feel inspired rather than disgusted. A natural hair journey can be the most freeing thing you'll ever do in your life. Where many people who've never gone natural regard what sprouts from their head as "just hair," if they were really honest with themselves, they'd realize that it's not...not in this post-slavery culture. If it were "just hair," most of us would be bald.
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