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Comments for From Grandmas Kitchen The Boiling Point http://fromgrandmaskitchen.com/boilingpoint From Grandmas Kitchen Boiling Point Blog discusses a variety of controversial issues from politics to culture. Wed, 14 Jul 2010 01:26:24 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 Comment on Black-to-Black The Difference Between African Americans in the US and the UK by DeTaun Nichols http://fromgrandmaskitchen.com/boilingpoint/2009/05/20/black-to-black-the-difference-between-african-americans-in-the-us-and-the-uk/#comment-2830 DeTaun Nichols Wed, 14 Jul 2010 01:26:24 +0000 http://fromgrandmaskitchen.com/boilingpoint/?p=237#comment-2830 AND ALSO AFRICAN AMERICANS ARE ALL MIXED UP WITH ANGLO AMERICANS, meaning(white), NATIVE AMERICANS some say INDIANS. This happened because slave masters and workers of the plantation owner were able to rape african women who ever they chose. The native amercian ancestry came upon because obviously the WHOLE UNITED STATES being indian land those where the majority of the people their being in the same conditons as african people having to abide by white beliefs and customs preparing for their adoption in this new (WHITE)american culture. Some indians even broke blacks out of plantations,but the mixed breeding came between their common hardships together in this new accustomed life. So to include blacks in america may look different and have a different culture from blacks even around them here. And back in the day alot of mix breeding was going on irish were coming in, asian backgrounds, different poor ethnic groups looking for work maraige. America is a big melting pot full of blacks who eventually end up having common similaritiese because @ the end of the day we are still ONE BLACK PEOPLE. AND ALSO AFRICAN AMERICANS ARE ALL MIXED UP WITH ANGLO AMERICANS, meaning(white), NATIVE AMERICANS some say INDIANS. This happened because slave masters and workers of the plantation owner were able to rape african women who ever they chose. The native amercian ancestry came upon because obviously the WHOLE UNITED STATES being indian land those where the majority of the people their being in the same conditons as african people having to abide by white beliefs and customs preparing for their adoption in this new (WHITE)american culture. Some indians even broke blacks out of plantations,but the mixed breeding came between their common hardships together in this new accustomed life. So to include blacks in america may look different and have a different culture from blacks even around them here. And back in the day alot of mix breeding was going on irish were coming in, asian backgrounds, different poor ethnic groups looking for work maraige. America is a big melting pot full of blacks who eventually end up having common similaritiese because @ the end of the day we are still ONE BLACK PEOPLE.

]]> Comment on White People with Dreadlocks by carmel http://fromgrandmaskitchen.com/boilingpoint/2009/02/27/white-people-with-dreadlocks/#comment-2392 carmel Sun, 20 Jun 2010 05:52:22 +0000 http://fromgrandmaskitchen.com/boilingpoint/?p=128#comment-2392 I'm just going to say this-because this could go on forever-if all life started in Africa then maybe Caucasians <em>being the most far removed from their ancestors </em>which are our ancestors, are just always trying to get back what they feel they have lost. because what else explains it? i mean it's not just hair, it's tanning, music, dancing, slang and just full on taking credit for black achievements. and lets not forget the Europeans in the old days wearing nappy wigs and bustles that imitated the valupuios shapes of african women. bottom line it's nit picking, if you don't like it or even if you do like it;ignore it for the sake of your own spirtuality. every moment spent on someone else (in this way), is time taken away from one's own spiritual development. Look around now is not the time. Read Revelations. This is the time fill our hearts and mind with peace and love for everyone,cause when you do we get back that wich was lost from us. Thank You I hope that someone can get something out of what i wrote. I’m just going to say this-because this could go on forever-if all life started in Africa then maybe Caucasians being the most far removed from their ancestors which are our ancestors, are just always trying to get back what they feel they have lost. because what else explains it? i mean it’s not just hair, it’s tanning, music, dancing, slang and just full on taking credit for black achievements. and lets not forget the Europeans in the old days wearing nappy wigs and bustles that imitated the valupuios shapes of african women. bottom line it’s nit picking, if you don’t like it or even if you do like it;ignore it for the sake of your own spirtuality. every moment spent on someone else (in this way), is time taken away from one’s own spiritual development. Look around now is not the time. Read Revelations. This is the time fill our hearts and mind with peace and love for everyone,cause when you do we get back that wich was lost from us. Thank You I hope that someone can get something out of what i wrote.

]]> Comment on White People with Dreadlocks by Jamal http://fromgrandmaskitchen.com/boilingpoint/2009/02/27/white-people-with-dreadlocks/#comment-2345 Jamal Wed, 16 Jun 2010 19:31:41 +0000 http://fromgrandmaskitchen.com/boilingpoint/?p=128#comment-2345 I honestly don't like it when white people have dreadlocks, not out of racism, just because it seems ingenuine and like they see it as a hairstyle. It really started as a lifestyle. There are these cyberpunk people getting dreads and what not, it's like they make a mockery of it. Whereas blacks imitated white hair, it was because of 400yrs of oppression and trying to fit in with them, you can't compare that to white people trying to piss off their parents or make some kind of statement. Rastafari adopted it as a way of not cutting their hair in keeping with the commandments in Leviticus. And it is suggested that this wasn't thought of as an adaptation until they saw the Saddhus(mainly Shaivites). They had locks and smoked marijuana. So most have it as a spiritual accessory so to speak. The same way Sikhs don't cut their hair. So before you say it's nonsense, take a look at why white people are getting dreads in the first place. I honestly don’t like it when white people have dreadlocks, not out of racism, just because it seems ingenuine and like they see it as a hairstyle. It really started as a lifestyle. There are these cyberpunk people getting dreads and what not, it’s like they make a mockery of it. Whereas blacks imitated white hair, it was because of 400yrs of oppression and trying to fit in with them, you can’t compare that to white people trying to piss off their parents or make some kind of statement. Rastafari adopted it as a way of not cutting their hair in keeping with the commandments in Leviticus. And it is suggested that this wasn’t thought of as an adaptation until they saw the Saddhus(mainly Shaivites). They had locks and smoked marijuana. So most have it as a spiritual accessory so to speak. The same way Sikhs don’t cut their hair. So before you say it’s nonsense, take a look at why white people are getting dreads in the first place.

]]> Comment on A White Woman Explains Why She Prefers Black Men by LAINE http://fromgrandmaskitchen.com/boilingpoint/2009/07/18/a-white-woman-explains-why-she-prefers-black-men/#comment-2319 LAINE Mon, 14 Jun 2010 21:12:41 +0000 http://fromgrandmaskitchen.com/boilingpoint/?p=369#comment-2319 HERES MY EXPERIENCE. FIRST OFF THE TOP OF THE FOOD CHAIR (WHITES) HAS THEIR CHOICE OF EVERY COLOR. USUALLY A WHITE MAN WHO CANNOT GET THE WHITE WOMAN HE WANTS (HE IS A 3 AND HE WANTS A 9) HE GOES TO DIFFERENT RACE TO BEAT THE SYSTEM. HE CAN GET AN ATTRACTIVE NON-WHITE GIRL, BUT IF HE STAYED IN WHITE TOWN HE WOULD ACTUALLY HAVE TO DATE HIS EQUAL (THAT BEING A 3), HE DOSE NOT WANT HIS EQUAL SO HE SELFISHLY MIXES WITH OTHER RACES TO GET WHAT HE DOSE NOT DESERVE (THE 8 ON THE ATTRACTIVE SCALE). WHAT THE ALL THE PLAYERS IN THIS GAME BEGIN TO REALIZE IS THAT THIS IN EQUALITY IS REALLY A PAYOFF. THE NOMINAL GUY GET ATTRACTIVE NON WHITE, SHE GETS A LEG UP ON THE STATUS LADDER. HE GETS SOMEONE WHO IS MORE CONTROLLABLE, SHE HAS TO COWER TO KEEP HER POSITION (BECAUSE HE HAS HIS PICK OF MILLIONS OF OTHER YOUNGER ATTRACTIVE NON WHITES CLAMORING FOR HIM), YOU SEE WHEN HE TRAVELS OUTSIDE WHITE DATING HE BECOME A CELEBRITY. HE FEEDS HIS EGO. IT A VERY DYSFUNCTIONAL SITUATION. IN AMERICA ONLY LESS THAN 5% MARRY OUTSIDE THEIR RACE. MANY OF THESE SITUATIONS ARE UNHAPPY AND END. STICK TO YOUR OWN COLOR. IF YOU TRAVEL OUTSIDE THE BOUNDS, YOUR RUINING THE BLOODLINES. YOUR ALSO SELFISH AND DISRESPECT YOUR OWN COLOR. WHITES MAKE UP 8% OF OF THE WORLD POPULATION. THE REST OF THE WORLD ARE DARK HAIR EYES SKIN. WHITES YOUR RARE AND YOU WILL BE EXTINCT IF YOU KEEP TRYING TO GET WOMEN YOU DO NOT DESERVE. AS FOR WHITE WOMEN WHO DATE WHITE MEN, THESE ARE DESPERATE FEMALES. USUALLY THE ONES WHO MOVE INTO NON WHITE RACES CANNOT GET A WHITE MAN INTERESTED IN THEM OR THE ONES THAT ARE ON AGAIN ON THEIR ATTRACTIVE LEVEL. DATE YOUR EQUALS DON'T............... HERES MY EXPERIENCE. FIRST OFF THE TOP OF THE FOOD CHAIR (WHITES) HAS THEIR CHOICE OF EVERY COLOR. USUALLY A WHITE MAN WHO CANNOT GET THE WHITE WOMAN HE WANTS (HE IS A 3 AND HE WANTS A 9) HE GOES TO DIFFERENT RACE TO BEAT THE SYSTEM. HE CAN GET AN ATTRACTIVE NON-WHITE GIRL, BUT IF HE STAYED IN WHITE TOWN HE WOULD ACTUALLY HAVE TO DATE HIS EQUAL (THAT BEING A 3), HE DOSE NOT WANT HIS EQUAL SO HE SELFISHLY MIXES WITH OTHER RACES TO GET WHAT HE DOSE NOT DESERVE (THE 8 ON THE ATTRACTIVE SCALE). WHAT THE ALL THE PLAYERS IN THIS GAME BEGIN TO REALIZE IS THAT THIS IN EQUALITY IS REALLY A PAYOFF. THE NOMINAL GUY GET ATTRACTIVE NON WHITE, SHE GETS A LEG UP ON THE STATUS LADDER. HE GETS SOMEONE WHO IS MORE CONTROLLABLE, SHE HAS TO COWER TO KEEP HER POSITION (BECAUSE HE HAS HIS PICK OF MILLIONS OF OTHER YOUNGER ATTRACTIVE NON WHITES CLAMORING FOR HIM), YOU SEE WHEN HE TRAVELS OUTSIDE WHITE DATING HE BECOME A CELEBRITY. HE FEEDS HIS EGO. IT A VERY DYSFUNCTIONAL SITUATION. IN AMERICA ONLY LESS THAN 5% MARRY OUTSIDE THEIR RACE. MANY OF THESE SITUATIONS ARE UNHAPPY AND END. STICK TO YOUR OWN COLOR. IF YOU TRAVEL OUTSIDE THE BOUNDS, YOUR RUINING THE BLOODLINES. YOUR ALSO SELFISH AND DISRESPECT YOUR OWN COLOR. WHITES MAKE UP 8% OF OF THE WORLD POPULATION. THE REST OF THE WORLD ARE DARK HAIR EYES SKIN. WHITES YOUR RARE AND YOU WILL BE EXTINCT IF YOU KEEP TRYING TO GET WOMEN YOU DO NOT DESERVE.
AS FOR WHITE WOMEN WHO DATE WHITE MEN, THESE ARE DESPERATE FEMALES. USUALLY THE ONES WHO MOVE INTO NON WHITE RACES CANNOT GET A WHITE MAN INTERESTED IN THEM OR THE ONES THAT ARE ON AGAIN ON THEIR ATTRACTIVE LEVEL. DATE YOUR EQUALS DON’T……………

]]> Comment on A White Woman Explains Why She Prefers Black Men by Rraine Selek http://fromgrandmaskitchen.com/boilingpoint/2009/07/18/a-white-woman-explains-why-she-prefers-black-men/#comment-2301 Rraine Selek Sun, 13 Jun 2010 17:03:24 +0000 http://fromgrandmaskitchen.com/boilingpoint/?p=369#comment-2301 I have to say I agree with the writer and Anne. I have only recently started dating a black man, and I personally find it has been a much healthier relationship than any of my previous relationships with white men. Or my ex husband who was Turkish. I did not go into the relationship lightly and it has caused some conflict in my very Southern family, but ultimately, he treats me very well, treats my son better than his own father does, and yes... the sex is great. But, I am with him because he is such a great man, the sex is just a bonus. He never had an issue hooking up with me as he has mostly dated white women, but this was my first time dating a black man and it was a bit confusing to me to realize that I felt such a strong physical attraction to this man. Now I am glad that I took that chance and have met such a great man. I have to say I agree with the writer and Anne. I have only recently started dating a black man, and I personally find it has been a much healthier relationship than any of my previous relationships with white men. Or my ex husband who was Turkish. I did not go into the relationship lightly and it has caused some conflict in my very Southern family, but ultimately, he treats me very well, treats my son better than his own father does, and yes… the sex is great.

But, I am with him because he is such a great man, the sex is just a bonus. He never had an issue hooking up with me as he has mostly dated white women, but this was my first time dating a black man and it was a bit confusing to me to realize that I felt such a strong physical attraction to this man. Now I am glad that I took that chance and have met such a great man.

]]> Comment on The Threat of White Pride by South African http://fromgrandmaskitchen.com/boilingpoint/2009/04/03/the-threat-of-white-pride/#comment-2089 South African Sat, 29 May 2010 13:07:35 +0000 http://fromgrandmaskitchen.com/boilingpoint/?p=205#comment-2089 I love these 'liberals' hahahaha Your families could get raped or murdered whatever pictures you put here. TG there are not too many of you k-boeties. And keep your trouble making propaganda off the internet. I love these ‘liberals’ hahahaha Your families could get raped or murdered whatever pictures you put here.
TG there are not too many of you k-boeties.
And keep your trouble making propaganda off the internet.

]]> Comment on A White Woman Explains Why She Prefers Black Men by Izziebelle http://fromgrandmaskitchen.com/boilingpoint/2009/07/18/a-white-woman-explains-why-she-prefers-black-men/#comment-2060 Izziebelle Wed, 26 May 2010 05:06:53 +0000 http://fromgrandmaskitchen.com/boilingpoint/?p=369#comment-2060 <b>@BB</b>: I have my own theories as to the attraction between white woman and black man vs black woman and white man. However, I am please of your version and I respect that. @BB:
I have my own theories as to the attraction between white woman and black man vs black woman and white man. However, I am please of your version and I respect that.

]]> Comment on White Charm: Black Men, White Women by sha http://fromgrandmaskitchen.com/boilingpoint/2009/03/21/white-charm-black-men-white-women/#comment-2059 sha Wed, 26 May 2010 04:25:43 +0000 http://fromgrandmaskitchen.com/boilingpoint/?p=147#comment-2059 In response to the above topic...I for one could care less who is dating who and what race they are. I am white but my father had a child before me with a black woman so my brother is mixed. He grew up with his black family but dates any race. He's educated very handsome and has dated a number of black women. It's about who you find a connection with not your skin color. If you spend all your time hatin' on a black man married to a non black woman how will you ever find whose right for you. I am currently dating a white man he's who I've connected with. These days white people are just as soul-full as the next race. It's really not fair I as a white woman born in 1981 still have to defend myself against racism when I have grown up in a mixed environment with Asian and black in my family tree. I feel lucky to have a mixed brother and other family members who aren't white because I get to know a side I may not have known otherwise. So, in conclusion....let's not worry so much about what black guy is dating which girl...let's be thankful they found happiness and then maybe happiness in any race may found us. We are all gods children...he doesn't care what we look like and we shouldn't either. Thank you from Virginia. In response to the above topic…I for one could care less who is dating who and what race they are. I am white but my father had a child before me with a black woman so my brother is mixed. He grew up with his black family but dates any race. He’s educated very handsome and has dated a number of black women. It’s about who you find a connection with not your skin color. If you spend all your time hatin’ on a black man married to a non black woman how will you ever find whose right for you. I am currently dating a white man he’s who I’ve connected with. These days white people are just as soul-full as the next race. It’s really not fair I as a white woman born in 1981 still have to defend myself against racism when I have grown up in a mixed environment with Asian and black in my family tree. I feel lucky to have a mixed brother and other family members who aren’t white because I get to know a side I may not have known otherwise. So, in conclusion….let’s not worry so much about what black guy is dating which girl…let’s be thankful they found happiness and then maybe happiness in any race may found us. We are all gods children…he doesn’t care what we look like and we shouldn’t either.
Thank you from Virginia.

]]> Comment on The !PicNicNigFit! by Life http://fromgrandmaskitchen.com/boilingpoint/2009/07/16/mom-doesnt-like-black-girls/#comment-2009 Life Tue, 18 May 2010 23:00:08 +0000 http://fromgrandmaskitchen.com/boilingpoint/?p=362#comment-2009 Wow...but this is not suprising. I was dating an Ethiopian guy before...we got along great..chemistry there...everything's good. Until his mother found out I was not Ethiopian..and she started talking about marriage...how he could not marry me and it would disgrace the family....Yeah, she cried to, and the same resulted as what you are saying. Funny thing is....Ethiopians are black folk too. Ahh..well. Wow…but this is not suprising.

I was dating an Ethiopian guy before…we got along great..chemistry there…everything’s good. Until his mother found out I was not Ethiopian..and she started talking about marriage…how he could not marry me and it would disgrace the family….Yeah, she cried to, and the same resulted as what you are saying.

Funny thing is….Ethiopians are black folk too. Ahh..well.

]]> Comment on You’re dating a Black Girl? by Cinnamon http://fromgrandmaskitchen.com/boilingpoint/2009/06/15/youre-dating-a-black-girl/#comment-2008 Cinnamon Tue, 18 May 2010 22:25:52 +0000 http://fromgrandmaskitchen.com/boilingpoint/?p=331#comment-2008 People chose to date people for many reasons...some times it is love...some times it is lust...some times it is curiousity...and some times it's for attention and just because they can. Only the two know their intention. People chose to date people for many reasons…some times it is love…some times it is lust…some times it is curiousity…and some times it’s for attention and just because they can.

Only the two know their intention.

]]> Comment on Are Historically Black Universities, HBCUs Progressive by Cinnamon http://fromgrandmaskitchen.com/boilingpoint/2009/05/20/are-historically-black-universities-hbcus-progressive/#comment-2007 Cinnamon Tue, 18 May 2010 22:10:22 +0000 http://fromgrandmaskitchen.com/boilingpoint/?p=302#comment-2007 First of all, HBCU are not segregated. Yes, the majority there are black but there are other people (whites, Asians, Indians, etc) that go there too. Besides, HWCU exist, except they don't call themselves that but go inside and you'd fine 98% of them to be white. I do think many are progressive, wonderful example would be Howard University in Washington, DC. Tuskegee University in Tuskegee, AL, particularly their Veterinary medicine program—it's very competitive. Anyway, your education, wherever you get it, is what you make of it most of the time. First of all, HBCU are not segregated. Yes, the majority there are black but there are other people (whites, Asians, Indians, etc) that go there too. Besides, HWCU exist, except they don’t call themselves that but go inside and you’d fine 98% of them to be white. I do think many are progressive, wonderful example would be Howard University in Washington, DC. Tuskegee University in Tuskegee, AL, particularly their Veterinary medicine program—it’s very competitive.

Anyway, your education, wherever you get it, is what you make of it most of the time.

]]> Comment on African Americans and Intraracial Discrimination by Cinnamon http://fromgrandmaskitchen.com/boilingpoint/2009/05/20/african-americans-and-intraracial-discrimination/#comment-2006 Cinnamon Tue, 18 May 2010 22:03:01 +0000 http://fromgrandmaskitchen.com/boilingpoint/?p=300#comment-2006 I think overall, this is true. Chocolate has been in, in terms of males, for a while, but I terms of females...I'd beg to differ. It's evident in the number of black men going after white men and women who are not black but Asian, Latino etc. I think now even light skin is not “good enough” for many black men...mixed and other all the way aka self hate. I think overall, this is true. Chocolate has been in, in terms of males, for a while, but I terms of females…I’d beg to differ. It’s evident in the number of black men going after white men and women who are not black but Asian, Latino etc.
I think now even light skin is not “good enough” for many black men…mixed and other all the way aka self hate.

]]> Comment on African American and Native American Relationships by Cinnamon http://fromgrandmaskitchen.com/boilingpoint/2009/05/20/african-american-and-native-american-relationships/#comment-2005 Cinnamon Tue, 18 May 2010 21:58:28 +0000 http://fromgrandmaskitchen.com/boilingpoint/?p=306#comment-2005 I don't think much of a relationship exist unless there is Native American blood in the family, and even then...there still may be no relationship. Please research black Indians...how they are denied many things because they are black in-spite of the fact they have the same way or life and same dialect because of their skin color, they are not really seen as true Indians. I don’t think much of a relationship exist unless there is Native American blood in the family, and even then…there still may be no relationship. Please research black Indians…how they are denied many things because they are black in-spite of the fact they have the same way or life and same dialect because of their skin color, they are not really seen as true Indians.

]]> Comment on Hazing in Black Greek Sororities and Fraternities by Cinnamon http://fromgrandmaskitchen.com/boilingpoint/2009/05/20/hazing-in-black-greek-sororities-and-fraternities/#comment-2004 Cinnamon Tue, 18 May 2010 21:51:00 +0000 http://fromgrandmaskitchen.com/boilingpoint/?p=304#comment-2004 To be honest….I think they are pointless…the only value in them is for networking. Besides this, I believe it’s a waste of energy and time. The step shows are always fun to watch, as they are very creative. Also….something that Africans American have in common with (some) Africans…what we call “stepping”. YES, hazing does go on with these black sororities an fraternities, don ‘t be fooled. My BIGGEST problem with these organizations, in terms of black folk: Most of the people who get into them do not know the origin of it Most of the people do not know what it really means, they may know the symbols but not really what they symbolize Most join because they feel they want to be a part of something..which is great…but you need to fully understand what it is before joining something To be honest….I think they are pointless…the only value in them is for networking. Besides this, I believe it’s a waste of energy and time. The step shows are always fun to watch, as they are very creative. Also….something that Africans American have in common with (some) Africans…what we call “stepping”. YES, hazing does go on with these black sororities an fraternities, don ‘t be fooled.
My BIGGEST problem with these organizations, in terms of black folk:
Most of the people who get into them do not know the origin of it
Most of the people do not know what it really means, they may know the symbols but not really what they symbolize
Most join because they feel they want to be a part of something..which is great…but you need to fully understand what it is before joining something

]]> Comment on African Americans Can Not Act West Indian by Cinnamon http://fromgrandmaskitchen.com/boilingpoint/2009/05/20/african-americans-can-not-act-west-indian/#comment-2002 Cinnamon Tue, 18 May 2010 21:41:07 +0000 http://fromgrandmaskitchen.com/boilingpoint/?p=277#comment-2002 Lol. Right. I'm sure the same can be said about west Indians in terms of sounding "American". Lol. Right. I’m sure the same can be said about west Indians in terms of sounding “American”.

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