They resent our taking their men. Black men are two and a half times more likely to marry a white woman than a black woman is to marry a white man. Black women can point to that statistic in justifying their wrath. But in truth, black sisters, we’re after the sex, not the ringand these guys aren’t the marrying kind anyway.

what happens if i, a black girl, ever have to meet his white racist family? where i’m on my WWJD kick today, what will i do when i’m staring racism in the face? Ofay Melee anyone?

I didn’t press him about it but I do wonder if she said, “OH NO! You can’t date a Black girl” or if it was more along the lines of, “BUT SHE’S A NIGGER!”

you have a vagina. get rid of that and you’ll be cured.

Last night (like many nights over the past four years), he told me he loved me but that he wasn’t sure he was ready to move forward. When I asked him why, all he could say, all he ever can say is “I don’t know.”